I recently saw a post on a online fertility forum by a woman who got a BFP and she praised God. It struck me that the only time I hear someone singing God's praises on online fertility forums is in a BFP post when prayers are answered. You rarely see someone saying how great God is when she gets BFN after BFN after BFN. I'll admit that I'm not a religious person so I'm not someone who goes around praising God at any time. I'm not sure what I believe about God, but I know I would be more willing to listen to the point of view of someone who sings Hosanna whatever the HPT result than to someone who only praises God when she gets what she wants. Personally, I don't believe that God's greatness should be measured in BFPs or BFNs, but if you truly believe God is great and all-powerful then don't you have to accept that even your BFN is a sign of His greatness?
See what my mind does during the 2ww. I need a hobby to distract me.