tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6081003982975427557.post1608154236281943624..comments2023-04-13T07:41:31.263-04:00Comments on One Good Egg: Useless CalculationsKarenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06863024013721266313noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6081003982975427557.post-7199090181446688222009-05-11T17:20:00.000-04:002009-05-11T17:20:00.000-04:00I do this too. And I too have my Evil Ex-Coworker...I do this too. And I too have my Evil Ex-Coworker's nearly 2.5 year old little reminder to help me remind me if I forget. :(Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07923049494756911105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6081003982975427557.post-56435129891421779922009-05-08T17:07:00.000-04:002009-05-08T17:07:00.000-04:00One big hug for you!
We adopted our son almost 1...One big hug for you! <br />We adopted our son almost 1 1/2 years ago.<br />I still think about where we "could have been" in regards to children that might have been whenever I see friends & family with the children who would have been the same ages as "ours". <br />It's perfectly normal to wonder about it & I am hoping that your prayers will be answered soon!Anitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08740673503008057360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6081003982975427557.post-70363488208510034882009-05-02T16:14:00.000-04:002009-05-02T16:14:00.000-04:00I totally understand. We're all entitled to indulg...I totally understand. We're all entitled to indulge in that from time to time.<br /><br />And the last word verification I had was Taina! Weird huh?Barbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16067045642285877560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6081003982975427557.post-90716044365786655052009-05-01T17:39:00.000-04:002009-05-01T17:39:00.000-04:00Yeah - the kids' ages smack me in the face too. I...Yeah - the kids' ages smack me in the face too. I think - how could that be right? One of my IRL friends got her BFP the same day I did my first transfer for IVF. She said "yay! We'll be pregnant together!" So now I get to be reminded of what could have been every year on his birthday.<br /><br />I don't think you are having a pity party. I think you are grieving and that is okay.<br /><br />I hope your child finds his or her way to you soon!Allisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01633429520589037807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6081003982975427557.post-29834188791958792472009-04-27T21:08:00.000-04:002009-04-27T21:08:00.000-04:00Don't beat yourself up Karen. We all do that to ou...Don't beat yourself up Karen. We all do that to ourselves. Take all the time you need. We will be right here with ya!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6081003982975427557.post-77228392299008797662009-04-27T18:55:00.000-04:002009-04-27T18:55:00.000-04:00Just stopping by again...thinking of you. Hope yo...Just stopping by again...thinking of you. Hope you're doing okay.Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13530698884712393184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6081003982975427557.post-20343086443468571192009-04-26T19:06:00.000-04:002009-04-26T19:06:00.000-04:00Lots of hugs from me, too, Karen. Sorry it's so h...Lots of hugs from me, too, Karen. Sorry it's so hard. I've thought about the timing of things a lot lately, too, especially because two friends who also did IVF just had their babies. If we had gotten pg during our IVF we would have had our baby recently, too. <br /><br />I'm sending some wine and chocolate your way, too! I'll join your party...Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13530698884712393184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6081003982975427557.post-74864743136054464212009-04-25T23:19:00.000-04:002009-04-25T23:19:00.000-04:00You know, there will be plenty of time for moving ...You know, there will be plenty of time for moving forward and finding peace. But there is a lot to be said for just feeling like crap for right now. Sometimes it's what we need. It's a shitty journey, and you deserve to just vent without a disclaimer, you know? *hugs*Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16003334714597731355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6081003982975427557.post-53276254768280761262009-04-25T22:40:00.000-04:002009-04-25T22:40:00.000-04:00Ooh, this made things interesting for me. The Husb...Ooh, this made things interesting for me. The Husband and I started trying way back in July 2001. If we had gotten pregnant that first time out of the gate, we would have had a kid with almost the identical birthday of my son that I adopted (who was 5 when he came home). How is that for irony? Your kid is out there...just waiting for you. I hope you don't have to wait much longer to get to them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6081003982975427557.post-76119256271679292992009-04-25T21:00:00.000-04:002009-04-25T21:00:00.000-04:00You're entitled to some "self pity". No matter wha...You're entitled to some "self pity". No matter what you're feeling, you've got lots of friends here to support you. I'm sending you an extra BIG hug! Oh and a glass of wine and chocolate. Those are my go to things when I'm having my moment.Beautiful Messhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02425541240465474148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6081003982975427557.post-76653000615596879242009-04-25T20:57:00.000-04:002009-04-25T20:57:00.000-04:00Lots of hugs! The should-have-beens are hard to de...Lots of hugs! The should-have-beens are hard to deal with. A little self-pity never hurt anyone. Indulge all you need to :)RBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17739978478314076003noreply@blogger.com