I'm now able to write his real name, Phenix Jake, and share some pics of him. In all honesty, I'll probably freak out about privacy and take these down at some point, but here they are for now:
ETA: I did end up having my privacy freak out and took the photos down. I have to decide how I'm going to deal with the battle between being open and honest and being private on here. Maybe I'll write more about that in a future post.